But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. ~Kahlil Gibran Two weeks ago now, I flew to Conway, Arkansas to attend the wedding of my very good friends Vincent and Mary. This and an academic conference got in the way of blogging for a little while but I’m back. As such I decided to a post in their honor about bonding. Not human bonding, mind you,